This is the message we got on Facebook. We had to get her on the phone:
Is My Boyfriend Gay?
I’ve been dating a great guy for 6 weeks and I’m really starting to fall for him. But the problem is that I think he might be gay. He’s a great dresser and he’s super fit. That’s what attracted me to him in the first place. But within the last few weeks things have started to happen that have confused me a little. He’s the perfect shopping companion, loves watching all my chick flick movies and chick shows with me. But I asked him what he wanted for his birthday and he said “Barbara Streisand” tickets. He said that his mom is a big fan so he grew up listening to her music and loves her. I’m worried because I’m really starting to fall for him. But am I falling for a best friend instead of a boyfriend? I just don’t want to get hurt in the end.
This is my two cents and what I told her and that is I don’t think he is gay. I don’t think you can tell that a man is gay by the way he dresses or the music he listens to that those are labels and stereotypes you need to stay away from and to be honest, in the full conversation. I told her if she really wants to know, ask him.