[Audio] Can You Honestly Love Someone And Sleep With Someone Else?

Kobe Bryant was caught kissing his soon-to-be ex-wife and we got into a heated debate off air that went on, on-air and we asked, “Can you love someone and sleep with someone else?

Here’s my take, I have been cheated on in almost every relations and I know for a fact that the pain I went through, that is NOT love. There is no way they could have loved me and done that to me and no amount of justification can change my mind. However, that is me. I just don’t think that love has room for more than two people.

If you are in an open relationship where your significant other knows what is going on, that is on you, that is different but to cheat, I just can’t see it.

PK thinks guys can because they look at sex differently. They see it as a physical thing.

Ivan: Was cheated on in his marriage and he says that his ex-wife didn’t love him because she did that.

What do you think?

  • Luap Reoglik

    Excuse me, but women cheat just as much as if not more than men do. Women are also more able to cheat than men. Men, generally, have to hunt. Women, on the other hand… Don’t. I they want some d***, most can pretty much just get one, easily.

    In all honesty, I believe you can cheat on the person you love and actually love them. I don’t think you really love the person you’re with if you’re out pursuing other women, trying to get laid, etc… But when it comes down to being down right seduced, then EVERYONE has their breaking point.

    It also really depends on what they person feels after cheating as well. If they cheat and feel no remorse later, then no, they don’t love the other person. But, if they are all sad and s*** and feel absolutely horrible and are afraid, then yeah, I believe the person actually loves whom they are with and are just weak.
    I haven’t cheated on my fiancee, but I also don’t go out pursuing women. I’ve been tempted many times, but never gave in. But I’m quite certain (not proud to admit), that the right lookin’ woman, great body, etc… Comes on to me and it some-how comes to that, I’m not going to make any promises. There are plenty of women I have seen at the gym, at the pool, in clubs, etc… That I know I wouldn’t be able to resist. It’s really just how humans are biologically engineered. We’re vulnerable to certain pheromones that release all kinds of endorphins and crap in our brain enabling us to think properly.

    I’m just going to stop now. I’ve rambled a bit and it may be a bit all “blah”, but it gets my point across.

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